Welcome aboard... you will love the car the more you drive it. It will take approx. 5,000 miles before you have a good feel for it's idiosyncrasies. I have a 2011 EX which now has about 19,500 miles on it. Everyone has a different opinion on much to do about this car... I am going to change the oil every 5,000 miles, as I'm on a program with Castrol to warranty the engine beyond the Honda warranty. Also, I plan on changing the transmission fluid and the in-line filter at every other oil change. The dealer here didn't even know there was a transmission fluid filter, thus they wound up changing the fluid twice... the second time they installed the filter I brought with me. The guy still swore it didn't have an easily changeable transmission fluid filter, but once I handed the filter to him he did a little more research.
Cobb is the expert on the car... he's been busy with a lot of stuff lately, but there are other really smart owners who will be happy to give you tips and such. don't forget to use the search function, as a lot of stuff has been hashed out already...
Enjoy!!