It's a bad idea for blinding people sine Honda Civic Hybrid doesn't have a projector headlight and should avoid using HID kits. Just stay with stock or alternative to stock. The "whiter" or "bluer" the color is, the less visibility you will see on the road. For the best output, go for H9 if your car uses H11.
LEDs cannot produce enough light to light the road at this moment unless it's a factory LED set up such as 2013 Honda Accord V6 Touring and some other high end cars.
I'm using HID without any relays on my Insight and it isn't that "blinding" to oncoming traffics.
DIY - Map Light for LX
~2010 Honda Insight LX Atomic Blue - 2010-04-25~
~1,000 miles - 2010-07-13~
~10,000 miles - 2011-09-05~
~20,000 miles - 2012-05-22~
~30,000 miles - 2013-03-09~