They replace with a new ECM because the new one is flashable, the old one is not.
I think this is the current policy. Early on some cars were upgraded by use of a different, non-flashable ECM such as the 316 series. Current flashable series are in the 5xx series, if I remember correctly. There is lots of information here:
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