Here are two links from youtube.
I changed my 4 brake pads myself yesterday, the torque for front brake caliper bolts is 34 N.m, or 25 lbf.ft, the same as civic (please let me know if i am wrong!!).
The honda dealer would charge me $500 for roter + pads. I declined, and replaced myself for $30, not including roter.
Here are pics i posted for my whole replacing process, however, explanations in Chinese not English. (But feel free to see pics, no need to register)