Oh man, I essentially gave up... I tried a couple different things and decided maybe given my intelligence level I should just get an alarm system that is able to cancel this out AND since there are other more important things to do on the car, this at this time is on the back burner.
Like some have stated, if you don't unlock it, it wont relock itself. SO if you drive and get out, it wont re-lock itself - true.
I also DID get a dummy key, and I cut it down REAL small so it fits in a wallet and all the black plastic is removed. Wont start the car but it will rescue your child from its deep dark evil autolocking clutches...