Thank you everyone for chiming in.
Auto locks are the worst in the sense that I will eventually lock myself out of the car, cracking a door(might swing back closed) or lowering a window every time I need to preform what is essentially a Chinese Fire Drill - is 100% unacceptable! 30sec is not enough time for a single parent to do anything(!)!!! Imagine being scatter brained, next buckle your 4 year old into his/her/it's car seat, close the door, walk to the otherside of the car taking 31 seconds somehow, hear a low rumble, reach into your pocket - only to realize the keys along with your coffee & cellphone & kid are now locked in a car, because no engineer at Honda had a child and thought this was a bad idea. Which might actually be a fair statement, think I've seen a few YT videos on Japan's alarming population decline.
TO THAT END, yesterday I just disconnected the entire system, cool, FUCCCCC*CK YOU AUTOMATIC LOCKS.
Do that and everything becomes manual. New brain conditioning and perfect, when it's unlocked,,,,, it stays unlocked. ONLY,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, now the hatch refuses to work as the hatch though manually unlockable requires electricity to operate the rubberized button. Soooooooo this(disconnecting) option, is not a livable solution.
Honestly, it(disconnecting) was mostly an ultra basic experiment and it succeeded in the sense that the alarm didn't sound or car stopped functioning.
It has now been plugged back in(need my hatch) but I hold out promise that a solution will present itself. Likely today I will figure out the live wires and begin to pull pins from auto lock till(hopefully) it FUC*S OFF!